From my 20 years of experience, I can tell you that it is most likely because you have certain “confidence & charisma blocks” that are holding you back...
You see, we are all born with natural confidence & charisma...
It flows naturally through us...
Think of little children…
They spontaneously know what they want (& they go after it!)...
They don’t hold back or doubt themselves too much…
Fear of interacting with other children? You won’t see that in little kids!
But then, unfortunately, as we begin to grow up from toddlers, to children, to teenagers, to adults...
We begin to experience judgement & criticism...
We hear our parents & family say that they are disappointed in us...
Our thoughts & our feelings are not acknowledged in the right way...
Perhaps we don't always receive the attention & quality time we need...
Our teachers (& the education system as a whole) stifle our self-expression...
We are compared to others while growing up in ways we shouldn't be (& made to feel bad about our early choices in life... making it easy for us to then doubt ourselves, second-guess & put off making important decisions later on in life)...
And from all of these (usually painful) experiences, we picked up “confidence & charisma blocks”, which interrupt our flow of confidence & charisma...
...& then begin to sabotage our progress & success in our adult lives...
What's worse...
We are never taught about these blocks, how to remove them, how to develop self-confidence, how to connect with others, how to effectively communicate our ideas, or virtually anything on these topics growing up...
Sure, we are taught that self-esteem, self-confidence, connection & charisma are important... however, we are not taught HOW to effectively level up these characteristics, & effective express our ideas, thoughts & value to the world...
(this is yet another thing the education system fails to teach us growing up!)
That's the bad news, now here's the good news...
It does NOT have to be this way any longer...
In fact, let me ask you another (important) question...